For over a year I have been seeking to envision Boundary Breakthroughs. But at a deeper level, I have been working on this for much longer.
It took a very short period of time for me to realize that when neighbors hire attorneys to sort out their issues with the neighbor there is something really odd happening.
I intend to keep up appearances in the exploration of those oddities and how to resolve them generally at my other blog Boundary Dispute Law.
Here at Boundary Breakthroughs, I want to explore how to sidestep those issues if at all possible and assist to rehabilitate those who were not able to and now need help refocusing after a bruising contest with their neighbor.
Noteworthy is the fact that I arrived at this place probably for much the same reasons that you have … I was stuck.
I had tried for years to leave my practice area. It was not at all fun because I was coming in as a counselor of law who not only knew the law, but also realized how devastating a battle with the neighbor could be.
I felt miserable about the fact that often times I was putting more effort in to the matter than people wanted to resolve it the “right way”.
The “right way” as best I could figure was that the end result would fairly correspond with the law and the neighbors then could at the least go forward in some semblance of neighborliness instead of outright hostility.
Unfortunately, my recognition that if I assisted my client to take a shot at my neighbor would almost invariably result in cannon being shot back the other way and so it would be best to put down the armaments, the neighbors attorney failed to regard the job accordingly.
In love and war, it takes two to tango. And though on many occasions I was able to bring all the parties to reasonable conclusion in the end, the effort to do so left me as a Spent Casing.
So what is the solution that I have come up with?
First, whenever the parties have decided that they are finally willing to come to a reasonable solution, i make myself available as a mediator, UNLESS …
One of the parties has offered to have me work with them to come to a reasonable peace and have been rejected. In such cases, I’ll go ahead and help the one who has approached me first as a boundary dispute consultant and if necessary an expert witness.
Second, and much more importantly, I have secured training as a consultant for the Proctor Gallagher Institute. I did this because i realized that not only myself but my clients needed a way to get unstuck.
Thinking and fighting over and for “Five Blades of Grass” is just not the highest and best use of anyone’s resources.
But, by resolving the conflict and refocusing that negative energy toward the positivity of up-leveling oneself creates phenomenal results.
I spent a decade banging my head against the
wall boundary between my clients and their neighbors. I learned a lot during that time.
The biggest thing is that in all cases these fights on the margin is because for at least one of the parties …
Boundary Disputes represent an external manifestation of an internal problem.
Now, it may be that your neighbors are the one with that problem, but if you decide or deciding to tango with its your problem too.
If unwilling to resolve the matter, find an attorney who will go in like a blood-thirsty psychopath who will linguistically gut your neighbors.
But, don’t be surprised if after all is said and done and your attorney is no longer working for you that there won’t be some residual tit-for-tat “unpleasantness.”
The much better course is to forego all of that and instead manifest positive results.
From this post forward, this blog is going to be dedicated only to positive outcomes. Outcomes you can control. Why?
The answer comes to me from Brave New World author Aldous Huxley by way of Bob Proctor’s A Winner’s Image video series.
There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and this is your own self.
So, though you still may need some help sorting out the Boundary Dispute Law between you and your neighbor, here your going to be getting the mental tools to work with your neighbors through mediation.
And barring their willingness to work positively with you in this way, some tools to start improving yourself.
For those who are really wanting to elevate, I invite you to take the next step and contact me.
With the information that I have developed as a boundary dispute attorney over a decade of focus, and the six decades I draw upon from the focus that Bob Proctor has made in personal achievement and success … I’ll not only quarterback getting you unstuck from the issues you have with your neighbor, I’ll show you how to achieve your wildest dreams.
I’m doing it and so can you. Cheers!